Спасибо за все ответы, я даже не ожидала такой волны. Действительно причина была в доходе, он на disability , мы вообще сомневались, разрешат ли. Ребенок, естественно, упоминался, и в петициях жениха и во всех моих формах. На интервью я сказала, что он со мной сейчас не едет, но возможно приедет позже. Никто и не думал скрывать факт его существования, это скорее от незнания, вроде информация есть, но конкретно не пишется.
Про ту же К-2 пишется, что можно подать в течение года, когда уже поженимся, а для того и дают К-1. (Separate petitions are not required if the children accompany or follow to join you within one year from the date of issuance of your K-1 visa. ) На Visa Journey написано более подробно
If you had children before you became a lawful permanent resident, and your children did not physically accompany you to the United States, and you would now like your children to join you in the United States, your children may be eligible for following-to-join benefits. This means that you do not have to submit a separate Form I-130, Petition for Alien Relative, for your children, and your children will not have to wait any extra time for a visa number to become available. In this case, you can simply notify a U.S. consulate that you are a lawful permanent resident so that your children can apply for immigrant visas.
Your children may be eligible for following-to-join benefits if:
You immigrated on the basis of a fiancé(e) petition
You immigrated on the basis of a diversity immigrant application
You immigrated on the basis of an employment-based petition
You immigrated on the basis of a petition filed by your brother or sister
You immigrated on the basis of an immigrant petition filed by your U.S. citizen parent(s) when you were married or when you were unmarried and over 21 years of age
You immigrated on the basis of your relationship with your lawful permanent resident parents when you were unmarried
Also, for your child to be eligible for following-to-join benefits, he or she must:
Be unmarried and
Be under 21 years of age and
Have been a child from a marriage of yours (the marriage must have existed at the time of your admission to the U.S.) or
Have been a stepchild from a marriage of yours (the marriage must have existed at the time of your admission to the U.S.) or
Have been legally adopted prior to your admission to the U.S., and otherwise qualify as an adopted child under the immigration law.
If you fall into one of the categories above, please submit the following information to the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services:
Form I-824, Application for Action on an Approved Application or Petition
A copy of the original application or petition that you used to apply for your immigrant status
A copy of the I-797 Notice of Action for your original application or petition
A copy of your alien registration receipt card or I-551
Proof that the child meets the appropriate criteria for Following-to-Join Benefits
You should file the I-824 at the USCIS office that took the most recent action on your case.
If the I-824 is approved, the USCIS will notify a U.S. consulate that you are now a lawful permanent resident so that your children can apply for immigrant visas. You must then ask your children to report to the local U.S. consulate to complete the processing.
Исходя из того, что мы здесь читали, мы поняли, что мы сможем его вызвать, когда я получу ГК, а ко-спонсором сможет здесь выступить и его биологический отец, ведь он тоже хочет, чтоб сын приехал. А я бы нашла работу за это время, а сын бы учился у себя. Единственное, что мы не учли, это I- 130. Об этом я узнала только сейчас от вас. То есть, как я поняла, мне лучше не подавать на сына, не рисковать его I-130? Тем более, что отец в течение ближайшего времени получит гражданство. А если вдруг так получится, что сын пойдет служить, его возраст замораживается?